Marraige was never created in the Bible nor in Secular Society to prove your love?

First, Emmy, They ped laws awhile back to allow partners living together to have the right to provide insurance and other benefits to the other partner if they so desired, long before marriages were legal. So your right why the marriage God doesn't recognize it as a Holy union. And if you think he does then you haven't read the bible. Try Leviticus first then read about Sodom and Gomorrah Then read Epistle of St Paul Ephesians, You should read the whole epistle.